Rules dating more than one guy
Rule #1: Listen to Your Gut Whether you’re on a date, communicating with someone you meet online, or flirting with a cutie you meet in the flesh, it’s important to pay attention and listen to your gut.
If a potential date’s actions or words set off an internal alarm system, you owe it to yourself to pay attention and act accordingly. For example, if you’ve met someone online and they seem interesting, then you talk to them on the phone and they sound completely different (in a negative way), you may decide not to meet them in person.
It is hard to really know someone through e mails and a profile, you need to meet them in person.
I personally, am not a huge fan but I’m doing it right now.
However, I feel like you shouldn’t date more than one person for an extended period of time, the longer you are dating more than one person, the more emotionally invested other parties get and you can hurt more people.
Should You Tell The Parties Involved That You Are Seeing Multiple People? I don’t know that everyone wants to hear that you’re dating more than one person, but I also think I would want to know before I got too emotionally involved.
The rule of thumb I’ve started to use is that if I like them a decent amount, and I feel like things are going well with them I will mention that I’m seeing more than one person by the third date.
I tend to feel guilty dating more than one person if I sort of care about one of them, so if I feel guilty I’ll speak up and just keep everything out in the open.